READ THIS BEFORE YOU SIGN UP
There are several things that you can do that will ensure that your profile will be approved and that you will get on the site. These are:
1. Accurately fill out your profile information first time, when you are signing up. This includes writing something valid in the "About me" section. If you fail to do this, you will not get approved.
2. Sign up using the facebook login or at least the email address that you have associated with facebook - this allows us to quickly verify that you are who you say you are.
3. Provide a display photo that is of yourself, clear and well lit.